I'm Renee. I live in Orange County, California with my husband, two kids, & mother-in-law (MIL). I have primarily been a stay-at-home-mom since my eldest child was born, though I worked part-time at a Pole Dance studio (more on that later) before the Pandemic forced it to close and I lost my job. 

My definition of sexy is showing up in full. Sexy is being turned on and tuned into the beauty and pleasures that are all around you. Sexy is feeling amazing in your own skin. Sexy is taking delight in simply being. Sexy is being fully alive. 

In my experience, becoming a mom was a both an amazing and shocking event.  It's amazing to have the honor of raising two tiny humans and to learn from them everyday. It's shocking to realize that with their birth, a part of who I was became buried under expectations & demands  (theirs, societies, and my own). If I want to be the best mom and wife I can be, then I need to start by showing up in full for me. 

Oh no, here goes....

Now, I write. I share my stories & experiences. I share my thoughts & feelings. I rip off the bandages and dig into the hurts. I share some of my secrets (some known, some perhaps not). Maybe by telling about who I am, someone else feels seen, heard, and understood. 

Dancing (pole and belly dancing are two of my favorites),  Crafting (I'm the LGC Artista of Looking Glass Creations), Reading, Traveling, Delicious Food, Baking, Thrift Stores, Cleaning & Organizing (crazy, I know), and of course spending time with my family & friends.